Trying to have a baby can be very consuming.
It’s something you think about multiple times per day.
These are all things that can go through your head.
It’s hard.
It’s hard not knowing when/if it will happen and it’s hard not to stress (even though everyone and their mom will tell you this information like you don’t know it already).
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For me, the waiting to test each month is the hardest part.
If I test too early and get a negative – I could be making myself sad for nothing.
But I rarely have the self control to actually wait until the first day my period is supposed to come.
I know it’s important to relax, and just take it day by day. Because getting yourself all worked up could be causing you to not get pregnant. This is why I’ve been taking things easy, turning down some work offers (yikes!) and scheduling time to just chill out. It’s hard to find the time – but I have to make it.
The waiting is hard! Hope this is your month with a sticky baby!!
WE will be trying in May! For my 3rd! That period is such a hard time! Try getting out of the house and doing stuff you love. I always found that helped me relax.
We’ve been trying for a few months, and I’m just now starting to get to the irrational, crying on the couch, “It’s never gonna happen” stage… your post made me feel better that it’s not just me ๐
xo
Ange
2WW is the worst- I’m trying too… Thinking about going to the RE soon (due to me issue of only having one fallopian tube and several m/c). It’s really hard…. I’m trying to put myself in the mindset – it’s not going to happen again, let me be grateful for my one miracle.. I think if I venture into RE it’ll just make me more crazy. I don’t know! –Shannon (from formerly- Another Mom Blog)